Which Subjects Won’t You Write About?

I have written two blog posts today that I have subsequently abandoned. The first was gaming related but when I was about halfway through writing it, I felt like I was covering old ground and just repeating myself. It was also regarding an issue that can’t really be fixed. Namely, how do you ensure that matchmaking in PVP games is done equitably. As there is no solution to this issue at present, or at least not one that all parties can agree on, I decided to ditch it. Similarly a post I was working on about what becomes of my blog if anything happens to me was curtailed. In light of recent events in our community it seemed inappropriate. However, as a result of binning two blog posts, I new idea occurred to me. Do my fellow bloggers self-edit and curtail what they write about? Is your blog totally unfiltered or do you apply a set of rules that determine what content is deemed acceptable?

I have written two blog posts today that I have subsequently abandoned. The first was gaming related but when I was about halfway through writing it, I felt like I was covering old ground and just repeating myself. It was also regarding an issue that can’t really be fixed. Namely, how do you ensure that matchmaking in PVP games is done equitably. As there is no solution to this issue at present, or at least not one that all parties can agree on, I decided to ditch it.

Similarly a post I was working on about what becomes of my blog if anything happens to me was curtailed. In light of recent events in our community it seemed inappropriate. However, as a result of binning two blog posts, I new idea occurred to me. Do my fellow bloggers self-edit and curtail what they write about? Is your blog totally unfiltered or do you apply a set of rules that determine what content is deemed acceptable?

Over the years I have certainly reigned in my opinions and learned to govern my passions. I found a draft blog post from 2010 the other day, which was labelled “rebuttal” and then the name of the person who was at the time, clearly wrong on the internet. I read through it and cringed, not because it was terribly written but because it was lacking in self-awareness and utterly redundant. If it had been posted it would not have changed anyone’s mind and would have lead to an equally tedious, counter rebuttal form the other party. Hopefully I have outgrown such posts.

So what won’t I write about? Well I like to keep family related content vague and suitably stylised. Families can be a great source of amusement and fun but there is a need for privacy. I wrote at length about caring for my parents but always tried to maintain a sense of perspective about the realities of the situation. I was mainly motivated by sharing my experiences with those who may be dealing with something similar. Hopefully it wasn’t just me complaining. I think that is the tightrope that everyone has to tread when writing about health issues, be they your own or others. Writing is often therapeutic but at what point does that balance tip over into what your readers may consider as whiny or needy?

Politics is a minefield but you can still work within some sort of logical and ideological framework if you want to, although that is becoming increasingly unfashionable. Religion is a far more contentious issue. I see merit is calling out those who use religion as a smoke screen for “hot takes” and bigotry. But just picking on people of faith because there are potential logical flaws in their doctrine and dogma seems pointless. As I get older I see no value in hectoring for hectorings’ sake. I also don’t feel obliged to have an opinion of every major socioeconomic talking point, as I recently stated in another blog post.

I suppose what is happening as I get older is that I’m just getting more specific about what subjects I write about. The key factor seems to be does the subject in question interest me? I must admit, I do have some regular favourites. I find the retail industry fascinating and like to write about everyday activities such as shopping or what facilities are available were I live. I like to explore things that can reveal minor regional differences, because those difference intrigue me. How people use cutlery. The fact in the US it seems to be referred as silverware. Another simple difference that fascinated me is whether by default, the bread is buttered in a sandwich. When these things are written about and discussed, I find it brings people together. We’re the same but different in minor ways and that’s wonderful.

I don’t mind swearing in my blog posts, although I try not to do it excessively. My argument is if it’s good enough for Harold Pinter, then it’s good enough for me. I also like to use slang and idioms that are UK specific. I’ve even written a few blog posts about phrases that folk outside the UK may not be familiar with or able to work out. Again I come back to the notion of writing a post where we end up learning more about each other. Overall, I like the informality of the blog format. I find it allows me to write as I speak. I like this quality in others writing. It feels very conversational.

I guess that I am happy that I write in between self-imposed parameters. I don’t actually think it would be well received if I wrote in an unfiltered fashion. Not everyone will share my sense of humour and the unreconstructed, inner monologue of a child of the seventies would probably fall foul of the fun police and “right on” Stasi. If memory serves I think I even wrote a blog post way back for the Newbie Blogger Initiative about the legal issues involved with writing on the internet. It’s not likely to happen but it is worth considering libel, copyright infringement and causing unrest. Which is another reason why you should always think and reflect before you write and post and more importantly, hit that publish button. If all of this sound a little overwhelming and puts you off writing a post, cat pictures can do a lot of heavy lifting. Dogs to.

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